By Heather Lang
This past week has been a whirlwind of emotions, ranging from the stress of preparation to the eventual joy of accomplishment. Our local 4-H achievement days took center stage, a time when our hardworking kids proudly showcase their year-long efforts. These days are filled with static projects meticulously researched and completed, pets basking in the limelight, and livestock bringing energy to the arena. It's the moment for our 4-H’ers to shine brightly, displaying their dedication and passion.
What the public often doesn't see are the behind-the-scenes struggles that make these moments so powerful. Parents juggling work and supporting their children as they face a unique set of challenges, from comforting tears over failed projects to providing countless pep talks when self-doubt creeps in. The road to achievement day is a very windy road paved with numerous obstacles, and sometimes, that road buckles in the heat. But one thing is certain: Each obstacle is a test of resilience and perseverance for both the kids and their families.
Ultimately, what stands out are the radiant smiles of the children as they receive their well-deserved ribbons, the laughter that echoes through the event grounds, and the deep bonds formed among participants. Plus, you get to witness first-hand the kids caring for their animals and the unique relationship they have built with those critters.
As a parent and 4-H leader, witnessing the development of leadership skills, growing self-confidence, and the emergence of strong character in these young individuals is profoundly rewarding. These experiences foster a sense of responsibility, community contribution, and entrepreneurial spirit that extends far beyond the event itself.
It has been said that 4H’ers are 3.4 times more likely to contribute to their communities when compared with youth who do not participate in 4-H. Why would this be? Because 4-H grows entrepreneurs and an entrepreneurial spirit fosters a culture of problem-solving and adaptability. In our case, our kids have translated their 4-H experiences into running our family business, Sterling Cuts, showcasing the invaluable life skills they have gained through 4-H. They are in charge of the daily care of the pigs, responsible for keeping a close eye on the herd health and are very much a part of the farrowing process. Each of the kids can count back money, help with inventory, and assist in restocking the local businesses that graciously offer our meats. This has led our kids to improve their public speaking, grow in their leadership skills, and feel more included. They are an intricate part of the business.
This journey might be stressful, but the lifelong benefits our children reap make every moment of it worthwhile.
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Heather is the former NDFB District 7 Promotion and Education Committee member and is also a former American Farm Bureau Federation P&E member. She currently serves as the president of Burleigh County Farm Bureau. Heather and her husband, Lucas, raise animals and crops on a 5th generation farm near Bismarck.