By Julie Garden-Robinson, Food and Nutrition Specialist, NDSU Extension
The other day, I was sorting through some clothes that are too small for my kids.
I found the small clothes in a dresser in a basement bedroom. I kind of forgot about this stockpile of clothes, which brought back memories
I looked at a tiny pair of socks that would fit on my son's big toe now. I thought back to those busy earlier days when we had two kids in elementary school and a baby at home.
Like any busy family, we had homework to monitor, meals to prepare, and piles of laundry and dishes to wash. We also had lots of extracurricular activities that had us driving here and there.
How on earth did we survive all that activity?
Now that two of our kids are 21 and older, shouldn't we have time on our hands?
Maybe we have become very inefficient. Maybe we are just catching up. We have several household projects that were set aside while we were running from activity to activity.
Our youngest child is a super-busy kid, so life hasn't slowed too much. However, we are older and moving a bit more slowly, too.
As our kids were growing, we always made family meals a priority. I have no regrets about gathering our family for meals.
September is National Family Meals Month, so that's a good reminder to gather people, whether related or not, around the table to enjoy eating together.
According to the 2016 Food Marketing Institute's Shopping for Health Survey, parents were making strides toward making family meals a priority.
According to the survey results, about 47% of surveyed parents were serving meals they knew their family enjoyed, 42% were making sure that family members were home at dinnertime and 34% were sticking to a particular time for dinner.
Family meals offer numerous benefits. Researchers have shown that children who eat more meals with their families are more likely to earn mostly A's and B's, compared with kids who eat fewer times with their families.
Children who eat with their families improve their communication skills and build their vocabularies. Even the occasional bickering session among siblings builds communication skills.
Family meals provide structure, stability and feelings of belonging. As a result, children who eat meals more often with their families are less likely to engage in risky behavior, such as drinking alcohol, smoking or drug abuse. They're also less likely to be depressed and less likely to have eating disorders.
A family who eats together enjoys more nutritious meals, too. Kids who eat more often with their families eat more fruits and vegetables, more calcium-rich foods and less high-fat, highly sweetened foods. They're more likely to meet their needs for fiber, iron, vitamin E and folate, too. That's good news for health.
By the way, we at NDSU Extension have a website and Facebook page dedicated to helping you eat together more often. Visit https://www.ag.ndsu.edu/familytable for information to make family meals a reality, and check out the Facebook activities with monthly prize drawings for participation. Sign up for the free monthly e-newsletter, which features tips and a recipe.
(Julie Garden-Robinson, Ph.D., R.D., L.R.D., is a North Dakota State University Extension food and nutrition specialist and professor in the Department of Health, Nutrition and Exercise Sciences. Follow her on Twitter @jgardenrobinson)