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Ways to support resilience at home 

Before or while receiving additional professional support, we offer these ideas:

1. Calm the Nervous System (Reduce Immediate Stress)

These strategies help shift your body out of “fight or flight” and back into regulation.

  • Slow, deep belly breathing (inhale 4 seconds, exhale 6 seconds) to stimulate the vagus nerve, calm the stress response, and support clear decision-making.
  • Grounding through the five senses: intentionally focus on one sense at a time (what you can see, hear, feel, smell, or taste).
  • Brief relaxation practices such as guided breathing, body scans, or meditation (apps: Insight Timer, Calm, Headspace, Healthy Minds).
  • Stretching or yoga to release muscle tension and support nervous system regulation.
  • Hydrate with water and limit caffeine intake, as it can overstimulate the nervous system.

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2. Build Awareness (Mindfulness & Emotional Insight)

Understanding what’s happening internally reduces the brain’s alarm response.

  • Identify and name emotions and patterns (“I notice I feel anxious when…”). Naming emotions reduces threat activity in the brain.
  • Notice your body posture and tension (clenched jaw, hunched shoulders, shallow breathing).
  • Practice being intentional instead of automatic: slow down and observe what you’re doing without judgment.
  • Remember, thoughts are not facts: You don’t have to believe or act on every thought you have.

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3. Manage Thoughts & Worry

These tools help reduce rumination and catastrophic thinking.

  • Identify and reframe extreme or overly negative thinking (“always,” “never,” “everything is ruined”).
  • Set a designated “worry time” (15–20 minutes per day). When worries pop up outside that window, write them down for later.
  • Remind yourself that stress is temporary, even when it feels permanent in the moment.
  • Act opposite to emotion: if you want to isolate, reach out; if you want to avoid, take one small step forward.

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4. Create Structure & Reduce Overwhelm

Predictability and organization lower stress hormones.

  • Make daily to-do lists and prioritize only the most urgent tasks.
  • Break large tasks into smaller, manageable steps to reduce overwhelm.
  • Designate short daily rest periods (even 5 minutes) to pause and reset.
  • Turn off non-essential notifications and schedule intentional “no-technology” times.

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5. Support Your Body (Physical Health & Energy)

Mental health is deeply connected to physical health.

  • Prioritize sleep: aim for 7–8 hours when possible, focus on consistent wake times, and protect sleep quality.
  • Engage in physical movement that elevates your heart rate (walking, chores, workouts). Exercise helps burn stress hormones and boost mood.
  • Eat consistently and include adequate protein, which supports blood sugar balance and neurotransmitter production.
  • Take vitamins as recommended (Vitamin D, magnesium, B-12), especially if advised by a healthcare provider.
  • Reduce or avoid substance use, as alcohol and other substances can worsen anxiety, mood, and sleep.

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6. Connect, Meaning, & Purpose

Connection and purpose are protective for mental health.

  • Connect with people outside your farm or ranch to gain new perspectives and reduce isolation.
  • Reach out to trusted friends or family, even when it feels uncomfortable.
  • Engage in hobbies unrelated to work to give your brain a true break.
  • Pray, reflect, or engage in spiritual practices that bring grounding, meaning, or peace.

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Gentle Reminder

These strategies are supports, not substitutes, for professional mental health care. If symptoms are persistent, worsening, or interfering with daily life, reaching out for professional help is a strong and courageous step.

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