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Ways to support resilience at home
Before or while receiving additional professional support, we offer these ideas:
1. Calm the Nervous System (Reduce Immediate Stress)
These strategies help shift your body out of “fight or flight” and back into regulation.
- Slow, deep belly breathing (inhale 4 seconds, exhale 6 seconds) to stimulate the vagus nerve, calm the stress response, and support clear decision-making.
- Grounding through the five senses: intentionally focus on one sense at a time (what you can see, hear, feel, smell, or taste).
- Brief relaxation practices such as guided breathing, body scans, or meditation (apps: Insight Timer, Calm, Headspace, Healthy Minds).
- Stretching or yoga to release muscle tension and support nervous system regulation.
- Hydrate with water and limit caffeine intake, as it can overstimulate the nervous system.
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2. Build Awareness (Mindfulness & Emotional Insight)
Understanding what’s happening internally reduces the brain’s alarm response.
- Identify and name emotions and patterns (“I notice I feel anxious when…”). Naming emotions reduces threat activity in the brain.
- Notice your body posture and tension (clenched jaw, hunched shoulders, shallow breathing).
- Practice being intentional instead of automatic: slow down and observe what you’re doing without judgment.
- Remember, thoughts are not facts: You don’t have to believe or act on every thought you have.
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3. Manage Thoughts & Worry
These tools help reduce rumination and catastrophic thinking.
- Identify and reframe extreme or overly negative thinking (“always,” “never,” “everything is ruined”).
- Set a designated “worry time” (15–20 minutes per day). When worries pop up outside that window, write them down for later.
- Remind yourself that stress is temporary, even when it feels permanent in the moment.
- Act opposite to emotion: if you want to isolate, reach out; if you want to avoid, take one small step forward.
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4. Create Structure & Reduce Overwhelm
Predictability and organization lower stress hormones.
- Make daily to-do lists and prioritize only the most urgent tasks.
- Break large tasks into smaller, manageable steps to reduce overwhelm.
- Designate short daily rest periods (even 5 minutes) to pause and reset.
- Turn off non-essential notifications and schedule intentional “no-technology” times.
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5. Support Your Body (Physical Health & Energy)
Mental health is deeply connected to physical health.
- Prioritize sleep: aim for 7–8 hours when possible, focus on consistent wake times, and protect sleep quality.
- Engage in physical movement that elevates your heart rate (walking, chores, workouts). Exercise helps burn stress hormones and boost mood.
- Eat consistently and include adequate protein, which supports blood sugar balance and neurotransmitter production.
- Take vitamins as recommended (Vitamin D, magnesium, B-12), especially if advised by a healthcare provider.
- Reduce or avoid substance use, as alcohol and other substances can worsen anxiety, mood, and sleep.
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6. Connect, Meaning, & Purpose
Connection and purpose are protective for mental health.
- Connect with people outside your farm or ranch to gain new perspectives and reduce isolation.
- Reach out to trusted friends or family, even when it feels uncomfortable.
- Engage in hobbies unrelated to work to give your brain a true break.
- Pray, reflect, or engage in spiritual practices that bring grounding, meaning, or peace.
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Gentle Reminder
These strategies are supports, not substitutes, for professional mental health care. If symptoms are persistent, worsening, or interfering with daily life, reaching out for professional help is a strong and courageous step.